What usually attracts our attention when we meet someone? Physical appearance, sense of humor, politeness and gentleness or something else? I suppose that first of all we pay much attention to appearance and manners. It is significant indeed. Then it would be great if both of you share common interests. For the first time partners do not pay attention to it as they are overwhelmed with feelings and emotions. It seems like partners are ready to spend hours staring at each other. Well, it is true. Quite often they began relations sooner as it should be. I mean it is wonderful indeed but all of us need time to understand whether your partner is a person you need to be with. But it is quite difficult to understand anything when you are moved by emotions.
It happens so that some partners do not share common interests. He is interested in motorbikes and cars, she is captivated by classical music. They say that the opposites attract. Well, it sounds great but sometimes it doesn’t work at all. Sometimes they literally do not have much in common. It means that one day they would definitely fail keeping the conversation going. Lack of communication would negatively affect their relations. Once it turns out that one of the partners is bored as there is nothing to discuss. She understands nothing in engines, he doesn’t care much about classical heritage. Of course many things depend on people and on their feelings. May be he loves her so much he would spend his next weekend visiting the Philharmonic Society and she is ready to do something as outrageous as he does. Then it would be fine and their relations would work undoubtedly.
If you are sure you do not want to loose your partner you have to work at your relations. What may it mean? Well, you need to develop common interests. That’s the only possible way. Sometimes you should sacrifice your spare time and spend it along with your partner doing what he or she likes. At the same time you may share your feelings, ideas and interests with your partner. Nothing would happen just by accidence. You have to work at it. We are living in real world that have nothing in common with our fantasies and dreams. But dreams may come true if you try. I have known people who are different so much but the main point is that they love each other that means they are ready to work and develop to save relations. Take care!